The Magic of Detachment

Every time someone enters my life, I remember the sense of loneliness when the same person would fade away. I have been practicing detachment for a quite time now. There is a difference between loneliness and detachment, the sense of being left alone is loneliness while the sense of self exploration starts with detachment. 

Why detachment is important? It helps you become strong mentally and spiritually. No one is dependent on anyone and its the ultimate truth. Wait what about families and friends? Yes, they do are a part of life, but here we are talking about being self sufficient.

A self made person identifies his strengths and weakness and take necessary actions. We must be ready to forgive ourselves for our flaws as we do it for someone else. There can be situations where you feel despised, accept them and let them go. You are your thoughts and beliefs settled over a period of time.

No matter how hard things may become you are strong enough to overcome it. You can't merely ask others to believe in you, when you can't believe on yourself.

Self love is more important to lead a life you want. Self love is not same as selfishness, self love is accepting yourself, nurturing yourself, believing on yourself and improvising yourself to a better version. Self love doesn't make you bitter, it helps to accept the way things and people around you are, and maintaining the mental peace.

The person who knows to take care of himself, knows well to take care of others. It always starts with you. Being self sufficient or reliant doesn't make you arrogant, it embeds discipline and encourages you to focus on the important.

Clearing the clutter is crucial, that a little detachment would teach you well. We all are born to be great, but a few have the courage to follow their heart and stick to their goals and aspirations, instead of getting distracted by daily chores.

Nothing worth comes easy. Believe that you can and you will definitely do it. No one can spoon feed the rules of life, its your life, you take charge and make things happen. A winner was once a beginner too.

If it had helped anyone of you, please do share your views on the comment section. I would be more than happy to know about it.

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